💕My Grandma, An Inspiration💕
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Even after her retirement at 60 years old, she just went back to work after a few days and aside from her day job, she also had chickens and did all of the work that comes with keeping chickens like cleaning out the coop.
Don't let negative emotions to rule over you. In every phase of your life you will pass through several scenarios of heartbreak, enjoyment, happieness, sadness. It's ok to remain sad for a while. You need time a day or two, couples of weeks, months to analyse the whole condition and let it go.
It takes hell amount of time to move on, i agree. But that doesn't mean you will burry yourself into this pit of depression and self-blame game. What was supposed to happen, happend already. You can't change that. All you can is live despite all that happened to you. It's fine to stay depressed for a long time but this isn't fine if you aren't trying to climb above through this traumic pit. .
If you decide to stay happy, then you will. Even if it doesn't work out! You won't regret cause atleast you tried! Never stop that!
If you focus on the things and people who are still standing right beside you, who is ready to take a stand for you. You should be grateful for having them in life. Not everybody possess this Blessing of having parents, friends, family. There are still people without them who are struggling to get a life. But you have! Now, go and be thankful for having them. Be thankful for the good-food you are getting, be thankful for the shelter you live in, be thankful for the branded clothes you get so easily, be thankful for the Home thay sourrounds you in a comfort zone. .
You are Loved more than you will ever know by somebody you never thought of. . .
Sagittarius, as an archetype, was a revelation for me to uncover. More accurately, I’m still uncovering the wisdom and ways of the far sighted centaur.
Jupiter, the planet of optimism, higher learning, travel and belief, rules the final fire sign.
Luck is a word often associated with Jupiter, and perhaps it also applies to the often wild, adventurous and faith-leaping Sagittarian - I suspect those of us with healthy lashings of this energy signature possibly need it. 😅
We are the activists, the idealists, the philosophers, the spiritual seekers - capable of perceiving a new way forward, by carving out a path with the lessons that we passionately create for ourselves.
This archer couldn’t bring tension to the string of their bow, without the deep well of strength and insight provided by Scorpio, it’s predecessor.
Capricorn, following Sagittarius, is born with an awareness of great, scalable heights, however finds material success in focusing the expansive vision already acquired.
We need this archetype for it’s ability to show us the bigger picture, to pull apart the tension and find meaning in the struggle.
We can benefit from taking the time to reflect on what a miracle we are, just for existing, here, as humans of Earth. These times are transformative, and there are difficult events to grapple with.
The Full Moon in Sagittarius can help us remember the vision that brought us here. It highlights only a day, but has the potential to expand your horizons, if you place your faith in the experiences that bring you joy.
I believe that we have the ability to discern who, what and why we are (here) - through hindsight, through intuition, through educating ourselves on the things we’re called to uncover.
The Full Moon itself brings planted seeds into sprouting growth. What did you wish for a fortnight ago, during the New Moon in Gemini?
Take a moment, you may just see a sign that frees you from lingering doubt over magic.
All my love to you, fam. 🔥❤️🕷
Happy Full Moon. #fullmooninsagittarius#geminiseason#astrolove
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I have been criticized for crocheting as a hobby and there is always that idea that grandmothers only crochet sweaters and scarfs for their grandchildren but crocheting is a whole lot more than that. You can crochet almost anything if you have a pattern for it or you can even design your own pattern if you are advanced enough. You can also play with the patterns and mix them up so it’s really not a boring granny hobby. Even children can crochet things like a friendship bracelet or granny squares for starters. #serenesouls#lizzxperiences#writer#writing#writersofsuriname#writersofinstagram 📝 #writersgram#crochetinsta#crocheting#art#craft#hobby
And I know that you don't.
But if I ask you if you love me,
I hope you lie lie lie lie... Lie to me.
Just lie to me/erase the memory.
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But you're my moon, you know..
You're what I always seek,
You're what I always need.
You're what seems like me,
So much so it almosts surprises me!
You're my moon, you know...
You see the darkness within me.
All my flaws,
All the things wrong with me.
And yet you're there walking beside me,
Holding my hand so tight, that I seem to forget the broken things inside of me!
You must be my moon, I know...
For your love, calms me down.
Your presence, heals and lights up my soul!
Just like the moonlight,
You guide me even when I have no hope.
You're my moon, I know.
My favorite companion,
The part my heart, which matters the most! ❤💫 -Purnima Gupta
𝘏𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺 𝘍𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳’𝘴 𝘋𝘢𝘺 💓
You are what real men are made of—I’m incredibly blessed to have you shape my world in ways I still cannot fathom. My childhood was wholesome—my heart always filled & you believed in me before I even knew what believing in myself was. Your presence helped me to become a better version of myself. You are a real protector, sensitive but strong. Your silence taught me how to listen & observe because love is a verb. I love you forever, Dad. 〰️
The blue hour reminded me of our first date
And the waves reminded me how with time it all changed
Strange it doesn't bring me tears anymore
I smiled as I saw the clouds move closer
I wasn't sad neither was I happy
I was content with the company I was having
We held our hands together unlike love
Intertwined a lot like friends that stay forever
And I realized how long it had been that I laughed without any worry
Emotions always take a toll
And I'm glad you proved what you said long ago
I'm glad you came
For I wouldn't have had the best first date ever
Or a kiss to remember
I'm glad that we didn't last long
For I wouldn't have realized what my heart was worth of
Or had a friend I could call mine now
I'm glad you left
Or I wouldn't have had words to pour my heart out
And believed in myself to come this far after all
I'm not sad neither am I happy
But I am content with the life I am now living.
When you’re the girl who overthinks, everything becomes more complex. You analyze every little detail — every text, every glance, every change in demeanor. Like a detective trying to see behind the curtain, you have a hard time believing there’s no hidden meaning behind what you see. A one-word answer means they’re mad at you. No answer means they want nothing to do with you anymore. Your mind skips right past the logical explanation that maybe they’re having a hard day or that they’re busy. No, it’s personal.
You spend hours typing and re-typing a two phrase answer, shaking as you hit “send,” and re-rereading your message over and over until finally they answer.
You come off as needy, and you wish people understood that your heart, trust, and feelings, have been broken before, and you’re just trying to protect yourself. You prepare yourself for the worse in a vain attempt to cushion your soul because if you’re prepared for the pain, it hurts a little less.
It’s hard for you to believe that happiness can happen to you! You believe the universe has a way of balancing everything, so even when it’s all going well, you’re scared that it’s going to get taken away.
You constantly feel drained from the intensity of your mind that never stops throwing a tornado of thoughts at you. You wish there was an off-button but there’s not. You know it makes it harder for people to love you, so you’re thankful for the people who stay, even if they know you need a little more reassurance than most.
I work hard in relationships. Sometimes maybe too hard. It’s simply part of my nature. I bring a laser focus, a compassionate heart, & an eager spirit to show up for the people in my life. I’ve always been this way.
In the right hands, this earnest interest in connecting can provide a fertile foundation for emotional safety, which can lead to the establishment of very close & rewarding relationships. But when my level of investment is not mirrored, my tendency to overextend shifts quickly into an emotionally unsatisfying dynamic.
This push & pull of (dis)engagement while trying to excuse emotional unavailability defined my relational life for years. Regardless of how someone showed up for me & how clearly they saw me, I worked hard to be granted special emotional access. And I would compromise my own needs of being supported to get there.
This is a core based vulnerability for me because I see how deeply rooted my actions were in a feeling of being less than. Of not being innately special. Of not being worthy of love unless I worked really hard for it.
Relationships based on the sporadic withholding or granting of emotionality are unbalanced & unhealthy. They teach us that we must be less than or more than who we are in order to be accepted. And they make it seem like we are responsible for someone else’s level of engagement.
It’s been a long journey, but today, I try my best to work hard for both myself and others. I do not beg for forgiveness. I do not negotiate my standards for love. And I do not compromise my boundaries for intimacy. I do not persuade. I do not convince. I do not push. I do not pull. If someone doesn’t want to disclose, forgive, or meet me in vulnerability, that is their choice.
Whatever comes with will, comes with ease. I do not shoulder the responsibility of another’s engagement. And their degree of emotional involvement is not a reflection of my worth.
I work hard for the right relationships, but because it is work done in grace, I do not struggle.
The changes aren't easy but today I love when someone else works hard to love me in the same ways I love them.
You, btw. You are so lovable. xo, MLB. #MLBordner