Something I’ve come to realize that I never let myself realize before; you should try to have your own life figured out before you bring anyone else into it, otherwise things probably won’t work out. We hear that all the time as we’re growing up, but most of the time it just goes in one ear and out the other; it sounds silly, it’s not what we want, we want to love and be loved, and no one is going to stop us from giving it everything we’ve got to make that happen; at least that’s how my mindset used to be. We’re single, vulnerable, and lonely, and most of the time we don’t even realize it until were in too deep; or sometimes maybe we don’t even realize it at all, we let ourselves be blind to it, and keep looking in hopes of finding another lonely person, so that maybe you can both be a little less lonely together. Loneliness can be disguised in many different forms and sometimes it takes a painful situation to make you finally see it. Loneliness is not always necessarily from a lack of people, sometimes it can be because something else you’re unaware of that is missing in your life, which can ultimately be the disguised feeling of emptiness. I could go on forever about differences and misunderstood feelings, but instead I’ll just say, try to sit down one day, and focus on your feelings; enough to separate them; enough to see what it is you truly desire; and then go from there. “Some steps need to be taken alone. It’s the only way to really figure out where you need to go and who you need to be.” #ssbbw#ssbbwgram#bbw#bbwlove#bbws#plusisequal#effyourbeautystandards#confidence#loveyourself#plussizebeauty#plusizemodel#torridfashion#biggirlswinning#bbwgoddess#ssbbwfashion#plussizelife#fatthighs#bighips#biggirlconfidence#curvaceousfiona#bigleggedredhead#fullfiguredfierce#bbwmodel#thickthighssavelives#redhead
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#DailyThirstTrap featuring some glow from my new #ofracosmetics@nikkietutorials collab highlighter in Glazed Donut. I couldn’t think of a highlighter name more appropriate for my sweet and squishy ass. Check my InstaStories for more 📲
I need to unwind. But sometimes I honestly don’t know how. I am constantly immersed in my university work, part time job and extra curricular activities. I’m thinking about maybe engaging in some painting 🖼 or other forms of art. I love walking so I’m going to try and venture on a hike at least once a week. I’ll definitely get some inspiration from @khyewalks 🌳 What are some of your ways of relaxing or simply disconnecting?