what do you do when there is no fear..... there is only CHAOS | @nikkicrosswwe
1 15 minutes ago
In each of these images my mind conjures up forms that are not really there. 1. Weird horse shape on R 2. Cow’s head 3. Gargoyle. This phenomenon is called pareidolia, which is a form of apophenia or patternicity. Being hardwired to search for patterns, we are all familiar with the experience of staring up at the shape shifting clouds naming the likenesses. I wonder if actively encouraging our adult imaginations in this direction, can give us a sense of relief from the concrete-set literal world, allowing us to marvel at the moldable ambiguity of nature ? #wonderofnature#nature#treesofinstagram#mushrooms#fungi#pareidolia # #apophenia#patternicity
Your date didn't let you pay anything. Does that mean that she is a feminist nazi who will dominate you in every aspect and this is the beginning ? Or is he a male chauvinist who doesn't believe that we are in 21st century and WOMEN CAN PAY THEIR BILLS ?
Well, I know you have mastered your psychology through the buzz feed articles and all brilliant sources. But hold on. Maybe he/she is genuinely nice and a little nervous. Period.
This is just an example. We interpret a lot. We give a lot of thought in things which don't even require. We build our own theories. And above all, when we are done ; we believe it's right.
We forget to differentiate between facts and opinions.
And to support us there is a lot of misleading information in the form of articles, bullet points about everything on earth, genius classes, motivation gurus ; so confident in themselves.
I am telling you a secret that they won't tell. They miss one thing. All of them. That's context, background. Every story is unique. No single line can define everything going on in your life. Because your background, your history, the context of your situation are way different from anybody.
So think before you draw conclusions about anybody. As these are going to linger in your mind long enough and they are hard to change. You know it better than anybody can.
It's good to acquire knowledge. But it's also our supreme responsibility to process it. You may read 10 articles, then judge people and start believing that you are suffering.
It can be the opposite. The person in front of you maybe suffering because of your habit of reading between the lines even if there was nothing ever there. Think.
MOVE HOW YOU LIKE. Shield yourself from things/ppl that drain you. And you don’t owe anyone an explanation. Make the decision to just remove yourself from what confuses you, exhausts you and puts your aniexty levels on 10.....you really owe that to yourself. Self love isn’t selfish.... doing what excites you may not make others happy or may not make sense to them but ummmmm who gives a shit. SORRY NOT SORRY. This journey has and should be about you and when others enjoy in it that’s awesome but when ppl around us become burdens than ... there’s the door or the trash- either one 🤭🤷🏽♀️. Remember the ppl who were for you at one point in your life can switch up- it’s ok, no hard feelings..... just slow walk right up out that space. Keeping my head is more important #sanity#peace#energy#goodvibes#protectyourpeace#protectyourenergy#sorrynotsorry#noexplanation#ioweyounothing#peaceful#positivevibes#calmmind#clearthoughts#drained#replenish#selflove#selfcare
4 318 hours ago
Happy birthday Mac! I miss you so fuqing much and I honestly never thought I could miss someone so much. I listen to your music on repeat because at this point it's one of the only things that keeps me sane in this world. Your music made me forget everything and just kinda let go of reality for a quick sec. It still does but more or less everytime I hear your music I want to scream the lyrics so loud that I'm crying or I wanna cry so much that I'm screaming. I'm still just in shock that your gone and I wish that you were here so bad Mac. Ilysm❤
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👦🏼 TODDLERS 👧🏻 .
Having a 3 & 1.5 year old is Super fun 👀
Most of the time my house is filled with whining, screaming, crying, kicking, hitting and blow up tantrums with tons of time-outs. ..
The best part of motherhood - which comes seldomly, is when these two little humans cuddle, play with each other and most importantly SLEEP. ..
The two most important things that I have learned about motherhood (on my own) is that you need: 🗣 PATIENCE & REPETITION 🗣
Sadly for me when I was created patience was left out... so it’s a struggle that I’m learning along the way to be better with. .. don’t get me wrong, sometimes I whine, cry, scream and have tantrums (in my own way) so I try to remember that these little humans and I are not that different and we just need to get through life together. ..
They warm up my heart, boil my blood and feed my soul 🖤
These little humans, best worst decision I ever made 🖤
Sobriety day 26 - I’m dealing with heavy feelings of inauthenticity, loneliness, and isolation. This whole day i was struggling to keep myself occupied when all i was doing was prolonging emotions of what i needed to feel. I know better now. I knew what i was doing. Finally i agreed and gave in. I thought i needed meditation, so i sat my butt pillow up against the wall, crossed my legs and closed my eyes. BOOM the feelings came in like a fucking wrecking ball and i started crying. I was crying so hard that i was gasping for air. The pain was there and i was here feeling it. I let myself be. Alone. Crying. Messy. .
I never considered myself much of the “crying” type but i guess that’s what happens when i decided to choose alcohol and other people to occupy myself. This only built up more suppressed emotions. Non of it good. Prolonging what needed to be felt
I know I’m still at the beginning of this new chapter in my life but this felt good. Feeling and releasing these specific emotions brought me into a high state of calmness and gratitude. I was able to sit with myself and put together the puzzle of why and what could be root issues of these emotions. I am now able to build myself up instead of drinking myself down. .
Self love takes work
One day at a time 💜
Rien de joli ce coup ci, juste un message d'indignation ... Je vis dans un quartier qui est à 3mn des services techniques et de la mairie, les cantoniers passent souvent mais rien ne bouge, je les ai vus en pause, à côté des cannettes mégots puis partir l'air de rien, de l'autre côté de ma rue tout est propre, pimpant, pour les touristes bien-sûr, mais pour les habitants de la ville...de l'autre côté de ces murs et a côté du parking aquabella voilà ce qu'on voit... #aixmaville#aixenprovence#civisme#servicepublic#marysejoissains#écologie#respect#sanity#france#southoffrance