This needs to be shared as much as possible. Most of the #men only #marry because they are looking for someone who can serve their #parents and when you tell them how this is not a right reason of getting married and that in #Islam , serving inlaws isn't the #responsibility of the #wife , they try to lay a guilt trip on you by using statements like "kya inlaws ko serve krna larki ka insani haq nae" (something like this). Then what about #people like me who don't have a brother and shall we serve our parents as well as our inlaws (in case our parents need us for some reason after #marriage )? Please keep one thing in your mind, "It is the responsibility of the #children to take care of their parents and if the #wife is willing to serve her inlaws, then instead of taking her for granted, appreciate her and if she decides not to (due to her own reasons), then instead of bad-mouthing her or looking for a second wife (for this purpose), serve your parents yourself. If you can't then hire a maid who can take care of them. I really felt a need to share this because the #mentality of majority of the males is pathetic and after reading the whole comment section where 99% of the men (and 25% women) still believe that #women are to be blamed for increased #divorce rates and that serving inlaws is the responsibility of the wives, I have realized why it is really difficult to find the right man for marriage nowadays. Also I'd like to blame the #mothers too who #raise their #sons with this mentality.