“Often we applaud the trails people blaze in the external world that we can see, but very rarely do we applaud the trails that are blazed in the hidden rooms of the mind that are full of uncertainty, false beliefs and pain...”⠀
Jada Pinket-Smith’s words made me think of my first year of marriage, how it’s allowed me to explore some of the deepest and darkest corners of my being. It has been an invitation to exponential self-growth and love.⠀
I used to think ‘love comes easy if it’s right.’ I now know that couldn’t have been further from the truth.⠀
Love is DIFFICULT when it’s right.⠀
When you want to love someone well, you don’t shy away from the internal work, rather choose to lean into it. #selfhealers .⠀
So here I am, after having spent the better part of my “honeymoon years” axing away at my uncertainty, false beliefs, traumas, pride and pain (to name a few). I’ve chosen a partner that’s not only willing to do the work with me, but welcomes it. And that right there has made all the difference.⠀
Relationships, platonic or romantic, are essential parts of life. When we have healthy and vibrant relationships, our quality of life improves. But it will always begin with you. Self-growth is something you cannot avoid. If you desire to live a life that is colorful, you’ll eventually have to blaze some internal trails. And that alone dear reader, is worthy of applaud.⠀
For more to come on Life, Love, Adventure and Self-Growth— Link in bio. Let’s begin the work. 📩
He has a smaller face among Indians.
More than me ...🙄
My English is terrible but somehow possible😂
Before I moved to Germany and worked in a corporate fashion job, I was so lucky to have 2 weeks once a year to come visit Freddy. I was always so paranoid in making sure that I had everything done, organized, and prepared while I was away. Even though I am now self-employed, this same feeling is 100% there! There is SO much too organize and juggle. 🤹🏼♀️ In less than a month, Freddy and I will be celebrating our church wedding in Bavaria. 🍾 Along with the long long LONG list of wedding planning “To-Do Items,” I am currently making sure I have every single detail organized with EGINO work before we depart south in a few short weeks!
I have to say, I do not really know what day it is - weekend or weekday, morning, afternoon or night (especially with the super long days with light in Osnabrück). ☀️ It really is work, planning, work, eat, sleep(ish), more eating, planning, and more working. 🤪 Despite the long days, I am REALLY enjoying every minute of it and so so fortunate to be in the position that I am, with the BEST clients ever! ❤️ Photo @susiemariephoto
La benedizione della luce sia sempre su di voi
Il sole brilli su di voi e riscaldi il vostro cuore, che brilli come un grande fuoco a cui possano riscaldarsi gli amici e anche gli sconosciuti.
Che brilli una luce dai vostri occhi come una candela sul davanzale di una casa che inviti il viandante entrare per ripararsi dal temporale.
Il vostro amore non solo sia sempre entusiasta capace di accogliervi l’un l’altro ma sia IRRADIATORE di serenità e di accoglienza verso tutti gli amici e coloro che capiteranno e busseranno alla vostra porta♥️
Possa il vento spingervi sempre avanti, il sole riscaldarvi il viso
e la pioggia cadere fertile sui vostri campi.
Possiate sempre avere mura che vi proteggano dalla tempesta
un tetto che vi ripari dalla pioggia
un tè vicino al fuoco,
sorrisi sempre pronti ad accogliervi
e coloro che amate al vostro fianco.
Possano le risate dei bambini riempire la vostra casa e
possa la luce delle amicizie sincere illuminare le vostre giornate.♥️ Congratulations to my friends Ale @lexss87 & Huanhuan @lexss1987 on their special day!✨👰🏻♥️🤵🏻 #justmarried#friends#love#internationallove#weddingday#cagliari#beautifulday#benedizioneirlandese
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Sometimes you just gotta say F*#% it, and stop overthinking and let your heart lead the way. 3 months ago, I did exactly that, and let me tell you, it’s the best decision I’ve ever made!
Happy 3 months babe @plazafantauzzi, Te Amo muy muy mucho 🙈❤️ •
Often, we spend so much time thinking and analyzing our partner, that we ourself end up breaking something, that could’ve been a great thing. I guess this goes to any situation, whether its a relationship, changing careers, moving to a different country etc. I think, sometimes we need to just GO, stop worrying what could go wrong, and focus on all that WILL go right! •
3 is my lucky number, it’s also the difference between my husbands and my birthday dates, it’s also the half number of the months our birthdays are apart, so it was an easy decision to get married in March (month no. 3). I know, call me a numbers nerd, but I needed to make my own meaning of our special date. So 3 months ago, I said the biggest YES in my life, and it’s the best yes I’ve ever said. •
So, whatever you’re sitting with, and you’ve gone in circles and can’t make a decision, and you’ve flipped a coin, you’ve written your “pros and cons” list, I now encourage you to take a step back, change your perspective, and stop thinking. What does your heart tell you? I believe it already knows the answer.
My husband told me after our 2nd date “You’re gonna be my wife” and of course, for those of you who know me, I said “No absolutely not” BUT, it was all a lie, because when he said that, I felt in my heart that it was true. So stop thinking and start listening / feeling for what your heart is telling you, it might be scary, but that’s a good thing!
We had international party at Ginza last night.
This party for the person who wants to marry someone from a different nationality. Many Japanese who hope to get married to someone from abroad.
It’s hard to not take beautiful photos in a place that’s rich in culture and history. To think this is where Mattis grew up. How lucky?! 😍
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Do you have pieces in your wardrobe that your wear over & over?
For me it’s this @acnestudios sweater & beanie. Both are quality driven and go with everything.
A new addition to my wardrobe is this handbag from @noanstudio called Maj. I’ve been using it every day since I got it and It’s quickly become a staple in my wardrobe.
It’s perfect for day or night and is large enough to fit everything you could possibly need inside. I’ve even used it at the market. 😊
@noanstudio is a brand dear to my heart. Being able to share brands I’m truly inspired by and passionate about with all of you is why I do this. ❤️