My dad used to always tell me “when someone puts you in your place, stay there”
Now when I first heard that my initial reaction was “oh hell naw I ain’t gon let no one put me in my place etc etc” 🙅🏾♂️ but then once I took time to think about what he meant I fully understood. .
Staying in the place people put us
shelters us from future disappointments in that person. It means to know what type of relationship you have with that person and if their loyalty is to you or not...
We tend to sometimes force relationships when we had all the signs showing us not to and end up being heartbroken, sad, disappointed etc. .
But had we respected the place that person put us in before we’d never have any of those negative emotions because we’d never invest as much time money or energy in the person as we did. .
If they crossed you once, what’s to say they won’t do it again? Not saying to not give people second chances but just be aware if you do give another chance 🧠 .
So next time someone puts you in your place don’t forget to stay there. 😉
• I’m gonna delete this tomorrow morning and post a cute bathing suit 👙 selfie
Finally arrived in beautiful Dominican Republic
I’ve had a lot of ups and downs the last 6 months so it feels fabulous to get away and enjoy some personal self care time! Also I’m shooting with @vividpixx in a few days 📸☀️
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Would you? 💜 Bali, Indonesia. Photo by @travel_leap#explorerbabes