You should never fall in love with someone's looks. I don't wanna tell you what to look for but always fall in love with their perosonality, not their looks. Their soul, not their body. Their actions, not their words.
Advice #25: Don't ever fall in lust over love. That won't work out in the end. Anyways, im in love but I have been for a while. I wanna be with her but she just doesnt feel the same ? Idk man, I wanna move on but I can't cause I'd stil do anything just to see her. Always do anything for someone you love, ig that's how they realize/ know you really love 'em 🤔
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When 3 amazing wonderful women that you admire & highly regard on @instagram all start reflecting on the same day about negativity, it makes you stop and think.
How harsh we are on ourselves, how we can endlessly see the beauty in others, (but struggle to see our own).. How we don't want to burden others with our problems (but we'd be raging if the roles were reversed...) How we can get worn out & run down from living life at full tilt, working flat out, endlessly giving to others, looking after other's needs...
(yet rarely stopping to think "what do *I* need?") & then criticise ourselves for not being "good enough". If you recognise yourself in that loop, take comfort.
We're not solar powered.
We need breaks.
And time to recharge the batteries.
So when life doesn't give us breaks (quelle surprise!) instead of blaming ourselves for being exhausted, for losing our sense of optimism or energy, how about we try being kind, and caring, and complimentary to ourselves?
(VERY unIrish. I know, I know...!) .
It is NOT selfish to care for and about yourself.
The fact that @i_come_undone@radioalison & @sciencesnapstories can all come on here & talk openly & honestly about this & resonate with so many, & get so many kind & caring responses shows the amazing well of caring & kindness we contain within us.
Let's start giving ourselves some of that resource too.
Today, give yourself a break. 💖