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You can feel her pulling away. She's the one that was always there, through all walks of life, through the break ups, through the career changes, through all the wine nights and coffee dates. There's a distance between you and her, the farther she pulls away the tighter you want to hold on. You no longer feel safe to share your journey with her, because your happiness seems to be pushing her farther away. You hesitate to text her that you got the promotion you've been working towards, because you know that she's been waiting for years on her own promotion. You hesitate to share the exciting news that you and your man are moving in together, because she has gotten so down on herself for being single for so long.
The part that a lot of people don't talk about on this path of awakening, is the shifts that happen to our existing long term friendships with people that aren't on a journey of growth themselves. The greater abundance that we create for ourselves, can be triggering for people that don't realize that they are the creators of their reality and don't take responsibility for their happiness and worthiness. Jealousy and resentment are undercurrents for her, "that's great, good for you," when you do share another success of yours. You're no longer complaining about how unhappy you are about your weight with her. You no longer are complaining how there are no good men out there with her. She's watching you accelerate so greatly in your growth, creating a life of travel, romance, success, wealth, while she's feeling left in the dust.
How do we navigate these waters of changing relationships? Loosen up your grip on the masculine energy way of gripping tight and trying to control the situation, and slide into the feminine pool of compassion, surrender and ease.
Step out of the situation and be the person to look at it from a conscious perspective. Give her so much compassion for where she is on her journey. Keep yourself out of the damsel in distress mindset and recognize that not every friendship, no matter how many years you've spent together, is meant to be as close as you once were. Be a friend for her, even if right now (... cont’d in comments 👇🏻)
Do you TRULY believe that your unique individuality is what will capture your dreams? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
So many times we as women try to alter who are in order to "chase" our dreams....but in reality when you remain true to yourself your dreams will be given to you- no chase needed. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Stillness, meditation & prayer are really great tools you can use to tap into a comfortable space with yourself as you transition into an even greater presence in the world. Stand alone confidently so that you can speak boldly among the crowd.