G r o s s o p h o b i e
Ce est un gros coup de gueule (et un pavé)
Je souris, non pas parce que tout va bien mais parce que ça éloigne les gros nuages. (poke @milie___xy )
En 2019, le terme « Grossophobie » entrera dans le dictionnaire : « attitude de stigmatisation, de discrimination envers les personnes obèses ou en surpoids ». 💩Alors toi (oui toi, je sais tout…) qui, sans connaître mon histoire au quotidien, utilise des photos de moi pour rigoler avec tes potes, pour bien montrer que j’ai changé, que je ne suis plus celle que j’étais… Essaie de te recentrer, faire une petite introspection pour te demander : Pourquoi as-tu besoin de me dénigrer pour te divertir ? 💩
Aujourd’hui, après des heures à pleurer sur la malveillance de certains, je choisis de me concentrer sur la bienveillance des autres et de raconter quelques bribes de mon histoire.
Après 2 ans de combat contre l’anorexie pendant mon adolescence j’ai appris à me connaître et à apprivoiser mon corps. Jusque récemment (3 ans), j’étais (très) mince, musclée, j’avais un ventre plat, quelques formes bien placées, je portais fièrement mon 36 et j’étais insouciante. #publicitemensongerepourmonmec
Désormais, le #bodypositiv ne me correspond plus autant, la maladie a rattrapé ce corps instable. Les problèmes m’ont fait prendre 10 kg, les traitements 10 autres et j’ai choisi de les assumer. ❤️Que je ne sois pas fière de mon corps ne signifie pas que j’en ai honte.
Mon corps me fait défaut mais pas ma volonté, il me faudra peut être 6 mois, 1 an, peut-être plus pour remonter la pente mais je suis fière d’être fidèle à moi-même.❤️ Sur ce, je me remets à la lecture du livre d'@ely_killeuse 💕
#grossophobie#malveillance#mechancete#harcelement#rondeurs mais aussi #hatersgonnahate#amour#bienveillance#bodypositive#selfconfidence#curvygirl#stopgrossophobie#grossophobiestop#fatacceptance#kilosentrop#onlacherien
I grew up w/a narcissistic parent who made me feel like I would never be good enough. Not sure he knows this, or if he’d even care, because he doesn’t know how to communicate in a healthy way. He projected his own self-hate & misery onto me for most of my life, & his wife is his partner in crime. She’s so self-centered, that she made SURE to ruin my wedding for me... the wedding SHE PLANNED. 😤
As my parents, I wanted their love & I desperately sought their approval. It wasn’t until early last year that I started realizing how truly negative they were, and how much I dreaded being around them, because all they did was suck my soul. Some quotes? 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼
“When are you going to grow your hair back out, I hate it like that.” •
“I’m glad my parents aren’t alive to see what a screw up you are.”
“Why would I wish you a happy birthday, there is nothing for me to be happy about.” (This was said after I was ghosted on my 21st.)
“You need to go to nursing school. CNA’s are middle-aged women who smoke cigarettes & don’t pay their rent.” (In reference to my choice to be a caregiver as opposed to a nurse.)
Talk about self-hate. 🙄🙄🙄
A little over a year ago, the ties were finally cut, & THAT is when my real healing process started- when my truest growth started happening. It’s sad, yes. I wish it were different. But I don’t even miss them, & that speaks volumes. I hold onto good memories & focus on how wonderful my life is now. ☺️
There are also the people who think I’m crazy for this new fitness journey I’m on. Well, wanting to love myself more is what brought me here. So, I’ll be over here, being my best self. You can criticize the program or process w/your negativity that stems from your lack of knowledge or fear, (because that was ME!) or join me & become YOUR best self too. 🙌🏼👊🏼✨💫
Well... what are you waiting for?! Drop me an emoji or send me a DM! Yes, YOU GIRL! 😍👯♀️💥
Through life, there will be people that will do their best to break you. The better you will be, the more you achieve, the harder they will try. Here’s the thing, try does not equate to success. Instead of giving them power by paying attention, focus on yourself and give the haters something to think about. I love my haters, they give me fuel to keep going.
Dear haters, I have so much more for you to be mad at, just be patient.
Excerpt from: Haters Gonna Hate
Today's Reading: Psalm 17
Psalm 17:2 (ESV) "From your presence let my vindication come! Let your eyes behold the right!" Have you ever found yourself the topic of some mean gossip? Looks like Taylor Swift was right when she sang: "Haters gonna hate, hate, hate … " But what happens when you just can't "shake it off?" How does a Christian respond?
King David certainly had experience with haters. In today's reading of Psalm 17, David responds to hostility and hatred toward him from inside his own kingdom.
Only One Opinion Matters
When he was feeling the heat of Saul's hatred, David said, "May the LORD judge between me and you" (1 Samuel 24:12). Knowing only God could see the inside truth, David held himself up to God's standard alone.
God is the perfect judge. Which means we must live our lives in such a way that we can sincerely pray Psalm 139:23-24 " Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!" This is a vulnerable, transparent prayer. But we can trust that God will lead us with love.
It is hard not to fight hate with hate. However, knowing that God is the perfect judge and that revenge is not our job is a good place to start.
Jesus is our perfect example when we find ourselves wondering how to deal with the mean actions of others. Jesus knew that only God's opinion mattered, and God had declared, "This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased"(Matthew 3:17b). Jesus also knew it was not His job to defend Himself. He was silent before His accusers. He entrusted His life to God. And most importantly, Jesus knew who would win in the end. That same victory is ours in Christ Jesus! Prayer: God, sometimes people say mean things and it hurts. Please hold my fragile heart in Your loving hands. God, only Your opinion of me matters. Help me to rest in Your love. Give me the courage it takes not to fight but to trust You are taking care of me. One day I will see Your face, and nothing else will matter. Help me remember that in my hurt today. Help me to be like Jesus. In Jesus' name, amen. #psalms#hatersgonnahate
God, sometimes people say mean things and it hurts. Please hold my fragile heart in Your loving hands. God, only Your opinion of me matters. Help me to rest in Your love. Give me the courage it takes not to fight but to trust You are taking care of me. One day I will see Your face, and nothing else will matter. Help me remember that in my hurt today. Help me to be like Jesus. In Jesus' name, amen. @kayla.j.ferris@first5app .
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Before the night is over I just wanna wish this Guy a happy birthday 💖 we have been through hell and back but if we can make it through hell walking through heaven will be amazing we got this 💯💋 #hatersgonnahate#inokea 😂
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Kita kena STOP JUDGE orang melalui luaran! Kita menghukum orang pakai seksi, tidak menutup aurat, seolah-olah dia baru lepas merompak bank pulak. Padahal kalau anda kenal hati budi mereka, mereka sebenarnya berbeza daripada apa yang makcik bawang gambarkan. Saya kenal ramai kawan2 artis yang menjadi mangsa gosip dan media sosial. Ada yang saya makin respect dan minat selepas berkenalan dan jumpa sendiri sebab sifat dan personaliti mereka sangat berbeza daripada apa yang haters hentam. Salah seorangnya kak @fashasandha yang saya kenali secara peribadi seorang yang sangat baik hati, berbudi bahasa, respect semua orang,xberkira, humble, indipendent dan banyak lagi. .
Kita dah berapa puluh tahun merdeka. Please jangan sempitkan fikiran kita dengan perkara negatif dan mudah buruk sangka dengan hanya melihat luaran. Bulan ni sambil nak menyambut merdeka tolonglah merdekakan juga fikiran kita dari Negative Thinking! ✌️😊❤️
I don't know how long I'll keep this post up because it's not me to be this way but I feel the need to say it. I'm currently dealing with. I'll make a YouTube video to go into a lot more detail. • To my supporters, let me tell you that there will never be enough days in my life to show you, tell you or give back to you everything you have done, and still do for me. That every fiber of being is so grateful that I am overwhelmed with guilt and thankfulness and I struggle with it. • Cancer is awful. It's much much more than I thought, expected or was ready for. I CHOOSE to show the positive sides that I create in my situations because survival is a mind set. I don't show the very real moments I lay in bed sobbing because I would give everything I have to go back to being normal, to being pain free, to being able to work and hangout without being exhausted. To have my hair back, my life back, to just mentally feel like myself. Posting and thinking the way I do is an every single second of the day conscious effort that I will not stop doing but hope people realize the struggle I face daily to not give up, is very real and incredibly difficult. • People may not be educated in exactly what I have, which a YouTube video will be coming out, but my cancer is stage 4, it will NEVER be gone, it will always be in my lungs. I can test negative and that's the hope but it will always be there microscopically and I will always fear relapsing. I also will have to have both breasts removed and both my ovaries. That's after chemo does it's damage on every cell in my body. • Insurance (while giving me better care than I could ever afford) does not pay for everything, nor does it pay for the holistic care that is life changing or the $$$ in over the counter medications needed to keep me living as normal life as possible. So yes now I have incredible insurance but no it does not pay for everything.
Let's be clear that •I DO NOT WANT THIS• But I will not lay down and die, If you think I'm being selfish, please adjust your mindset, I'd give it all back if I could. I'm sorry you think my gofundme or help is a joke.
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In just over a year and a half ago, I was weighing 97kgs and now down to 68kgs. Couldn’t be more happier with myself. Weight has always been a struggle of mine since I was little and now I am proud of how far I’ve become😍 #hatersgonnahate 🖕🏽