Ah.... This is an interesting one... I've never really dated outside of my racial group. DON'T GET ME WRONG... IT'S NOT THAT I WOULDN'T.
I think it's more based on not knowing of a guy from another racial group is open to dating me... TRUE STORY.. Many years back, before I was this comfortable in my gay coloured skin, this really attractive white guy my age from the George are was very much interested in courting me.. NEEDLESS TO SAY.. I WASN'T REALLY OUT TO THE WHOLE WORLD. MY MOM KNEW AT THAT TIME. And point is with all the challenges that a gay relationship faces, We would've faced him having to lose relationships with friends and family in Pretoria if we had to become a couple 👬 coz he told me that would happen coz I'm coloured and they would just not worry with him anymore and he would sacrifice the bond for us. I could let him do that😔
Coz it just seemed like such a heavy thing that would weigh upon us. But looking back on it now and think bout where I am at now and how much I've evolved.. I would've said to him fuck it let's be us... Evenz if they have a problem with it. COz I was yet to be in this frame of mind where I am now.. Where I don't believe in the permission of others for me to be me or for me to be with someone from another race.
I think any interracial couple whom are strong makes up their own traditions and within becoming a unit, they understand how to protect themselves and their relationship from those nay sayers whom for some reason wish to cause trouble... #gay#beardedgay#gayswithbeard#hairygay#instagay#scruff#blackgay#blackgaymen#gayblackmen#gayuk#queerblackmen#queer#gayHawaii#gaydudes#gayboy#gaynewzealand#gayoahu#scruffygay#instagay#gaysingle#singlegay#gaydude#beardgame#gayguy#gaymen#gaylondon#gayeurope#nofuckboys#cutegay#gaybrazil#gayfollowbacks