When we were still friends, the guy's picture would pop up on those spammy top 10 post things. You know the “who does what at your party,” “what did they get arrested for,” ect. Imagine that. The guy who is fucking your wife just out there for the world to see. God knows what else they shared. I couldn't see because the shit blocked me. Oh and then the ex had her little posts about starting over and moving on. They looked innocent and sweet - like a lot of the posts I see on here. People were supportive. That's because they had no idea. No fucking clue. I used to get so goddamn pissed when I'd see that. So, what did I do? Unfriend, unfollow, and block. A weight had been lifted from my shoulders. The temptation to check was gone. And the oath to healing began.