This is a life long lesson we have all been taught, but how many of us actually remind ourselves of it during a difficult feat? Usually we are most concerned with the 4th P which I left out...the prize, the goal. If we don’t get the 4tj P right away sometimes we want to give up. Today we started potty training with my little one and with each success and each failure, I could feel that my emotions that were attached to the PRIZE or the GOAL were stronger than hers. I think that’s true for most of us as adults. We get discouraged faster and give up faster. We are quicker to put ourselves down and quit. Today Penelope maintained her persistence, patience and because of that she made progress! She was extremely happy with succeeding at the smaller goals. The sticker. The chocolate and small motivators. Focusing on the small wins make her small setbacks accepted for what they are. Tools for advancement and learning. If we stopped to revel in our small accomplishments leading toward the BIG PRIZE, I think we would be much happier and go further. Infact, it’s proven. What small victories on the way to the BIG prize could you be celebrating?
I meet women all the time in this situation.
What happens next?
You keep showing up, wishing, hoping, praying that someone buys.
And you quickly realize that it takes MORE to be successful than what you were sold.
Posting on social media all day long is not a strategy.
-Clarity on who you are serving
-A killer program that gets your clients results
-The right message to match that attracts clients too you
-A sales process that works!
-Systems and automation so that your business runs on auto-pilot
-Multiple offers and multiple streams of income so the cash flows regardless of if you are present
-A real understanding of social media so you can build your tribe and your authority and sell the shit out of your services.
Babe this is your wake up call. Nothing is going to change unless you step up and ditch the struggle. Build your empire.
Create a real, sustainable business.
And scale to multi-six figures and beyond.
When you ditch the struggle and build it, of course everything gets easier.
No more relying on getting “the next client”. No more desperate offers of “free discovery calls”. When you build it right, you can put up an offer and make $3K, $5K, even $12K or more without ever getting on the phone with anyone. Just cash being deposited into your bank acocunt. Total ease and total flow. Isn’t it about time you ditched the “hustle and struggle” and got what you desired?
Of course it is.
But let’s face it, doing on your own is hard, nearly damn impossible.
The easier and faster way is to be fully supported.
Knowing exactly what to create, how to build it and turn it on so you make lots of money.
Strategy, mentorship and accountability - someone to hold your ass to the fire so you do what you need to do to get what you want to get.
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YOUR COMMUNICATION MATTERS
Do you have great advice or something of real value to share with those you care about but it falls on deaf ears?
So you spent a significant amount of time/energy and effort helping someone out and at the time they say “yes that makes total sense... ok I’m going to do it.” The next day you discover it went completely over their head.
Maybe it’s your advice about health or an important relationship.
Maybe you have very important advice to share with your kids.
Here’s the truth. Most people think we listen with our ears👂 and this may be true but in reality when it comes to effective communication we actually ‘hear’ with our own personal beliefs and values.
In other words, you may have a very important piece of information/advice to share with someone else but if what you say is not important to ‘them’ then there is a BIG chance they won’t really ‘hear’ your message and apply it to their life.
Here are some key points:
# 1 Just because it’s important to you doesn’t mean it’s important to the person you’re trying to communicate with.
# 2 each person using the English language actually has their own unique version of how they process and ‘hear’ your communication.
# 3 If we take the time and interest to find out ‘their’ unique version of language we will be tremendously more effective at sharing our valuable advice and more importantly their ‘receiving’ of that advice.
If you have an interest in conscious communication and learning how to get your ideas and valuable advice across to others then let me know and I’ll share more about this.
I believe by sharing, understanding and appreciating each other on deeper levels causes us to breathe easier in our day to day lives and in the process we make the world a better place.
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