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Saya pribadi berulang kali terjebak dengan #selfinsecurities , dampaknya saya jadi tidak melakukan banyak hal yang sebaiknya saya lakukan. Saya jadi tidak bisa melihat kemampuan diri saya dengan baik. Dampaknya insecure ini memang bisa kemana-mana dan bisa jadi gimana-gimana. Tidak menyenangkan dan cenderung lebih banyak penyesalan. •
Sering melihat diri saya dari sekarang kebelakang, walaupun banyak yang sudah saya lakukan, tapi merasa itu tidak semaksimal yang saya bisa. Lingkungan sekitar yang tidak supportive juga bisa memperparah insecurities ini. That's why, saya selalu ingin dan berusaha menjadi pribadi yang bisa support each other dari hal-hal yang sederhana. Sejujurnya, tidak mudah. Apalagi kalau ketemunya dengan orang yang tidak open minded, tidak membuka dirinya, tidak sadar kalau sudah terjebak insecurities. •
Walaupun memang tidak mudah, saya tidak ingin berhenti melakukannya, menjadi teman/support yang dibutuhkan. Meruntuhkan insecurity menurut saya bisa dimulai dengan kesadaran diri bahwa kita berharga, menerima diri dengan kendali usaha menjadi lebih baik setiap harinya, lebih cantik dan lebih sehat. #selfappreciation#selfacceptance#betterlife@erkacorner#happymoment ❤️ #lovelivemoment
How many times have you been stuck in the inner dialogue within your mind?
You know those thoughts we would never say to a friend. The thoughts which reveal how we honestly see ourselves. Ideas like: I’m never good enough. I always mess things up. No one loves me. I’m never going to get this right. I’m not as smart as her.
If you can relate, join me to chat about how you can move past your insecurities. (Link in bio)
There's Nothing Wrong With You!
We go through life feeling less than, feeling we need to be better looking, have more money, a slimmer body, etc etc.
There's a saying that "comparison is the thief of joy", if we spend our time wishing we were different then all we are doing is postponing confidence and happiness to some day in the future that will never come.
Insecurity is a disease of the mind that cannot be fixed by altering some external factor of your life. The problem isn't your looks or weight or height etc, the problem is you thinking that you aren't perfect exactly as you are right now.
Imagine that you felt perfect in every possible way right now. Imagine going through life feeling comfortable with every aspect of yourself regardless of what others may think or say or do.
Imagine the freedom that gives you to just relax and be the best version of yourself.
Well, the little known secret is that you absolutely can choose how you want to feel right now.
You can choose to feel perfect and you can choose to feel deserving of your very best regardless of what you may have been telling yourself up to this point.
The only person that can rescue you from fear and insecurity is yourself. Well hopefully with a little guidance from myself!
You are a wonderful human being, perfect in every way and fully deserving of the very best that life has to offer.
You need to keep telling yourself this and choosing to feel perfect, peaceful, loving and powerful as much as you can.
Instead of hating yourself, hate fear, hate insecurity and hate the mediocre life you have. Take the power of that hate and channel it into feeling and being awesome!
In this moment I am breathing deeply, I am choosing to see myself as an equal, valuable and worthwhile human being.
I am choosing to feel perfect
I am choosing to feel whole
I am choosing to feel complete
I am choosing to hate fear, insecurity and mediocrity
I am choosing to feel powerful and in command of myself and my life
I am choosing to feel deserving of my very best efforts
Will you join me?
So Kelsey and I started doing YouTube videos awhile back. First, it was super hard to start. So insecure and watching myself on camera made me cringe and wanna throw up. I just wanted to immediately hide in a hole somewhere. Second, sharing these has been super hard too. It’s hard to put myself out there. It’s hard to “be seen”. It’s hard to promote something that’s me! I’ve spent my whole life not wanting to be seen. The thing is, I love doing these videos. I like editing, creating graphics. I find it all energizing. I just find myself desperately fearful of what others might think of me. It sucks. I just want to be free. But I guess it takes time to unlearn a lifetime of hiding. #myreallife#rachelsreallife#progressoverperfection#vulnerability#insecurity#rachelseyatthemovies#moviereviews
Accutane isn't for everyone. Please, if you don't have BAD acne or an acne that won't left you scars you shouldn't take it. Isotretinoin or accutane is getting a lot of popularity for being a maginal pill but we also don't know well what this could do to the body in long-terms. Boys and girls out there are taking the pill without a dermatologist controling the treatment and even think that this pill will solve all the problems...First you have to be good with yourself, love yourself, if you don't, them a pill won't solve your problems and you will feel more empty than before. It's really important that anyone taking accutane should understand that this isn't magic and it's probably for the acne to come back, so take your time, appreciate yourself and take things easy even if you can't stand it anymore. Acne is a really hard condition to treat and can last a whole life, but with patience, discipline and self love even the smallest changes will make the difference ❤☀. This isn't a funny pill to take, neither the side effects. For me it was horrible that after 3 years the effects lasted 6 months until the cystic acne started appearing and now I still have (after 18 month of no accutane) dry lips from the long treatment.
I know, perfectly, how it feels the sensation and thoughts of not having acne and how excited and relaxed you feel, that it's literally indescribable, but all that mean nothing if you don't love every inch of your face, with acne or without it, because it's you, that's what only matters. You don't have to cry every night about it. That's who you are and people around you love you. Acne shouldn't make you change who you are. It can't, in fact 🌻.
"𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘴𝘵 𝘥𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘮 𝘶𝘯𝘣𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘥 "
i don't know what is it but it seems creative so yeah hope u like it lol
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Guys, all this social media stuff honestly scares the 💩 outa me (though, not literally—yet). Coming from a self-proclaimed social media hermit of 4 or so years, who has legitimately dreamt of living off-grid, building an earthen home, growing our own food, & being somewhere out where WiFi likes to play hide-and-seek....it’s almost laughable that I’m now jumping into a business that requires daily engagement with social media & working from WiFi/Data.
Publicly subjecting myself to people’s snap judgments, opinions, & personal experiences scares me.
The thought of learning & balancing the boundaries of public/private life is daunting.
Tying my name to a company that I don’t yet know everything about — & whose name I, personally, definitely wouldn’t have chosen 😅— makes me nervous.
The temptation in business/marketing to begin see every person as potential purchaser instead of a beloved, precious human that I’m called to LAY MY LIFE DOWN FOR & love unconditionally, makes me wary.
Inviting people to watch me try, & potentially “fail” at something — whatever that means — frightens the recovering perfectionist in me that doesn’t want to show anyone anything until I’ve achieved some form of success or merit in it.
The potential slippery slope of beginning to be less present with the people physically around me, sobers me.
The lack of complete parallel structure in what I’ve just written kind of annoys me 😂🤷♀️.... BUT (& you had to know there was a 🍑 coming). This business also keeps me up at night giddy, & dreaming. Dreaming of the way this opportunity and platform can connect me to women whose stories I’d get to hear & treasure, women who may need to hear what God will lay on my heart to share, women who desire community, support, and useful resources to consistently pursue a healthier lifestyle. & oh my word, the idea that one day this could supply an income that doesn’t depend on one fixed location, and would allow me to stay at home with all our babies, while pursuing values I already believe in and practice...holy smokes...Makes my heart pitter patter (like the future feet of the ones I’d get to stay home with!👣🙏🏻😆). So here’s to dream-chasing
If the problem can be solved, why worry?—
Basically the only thing I have been asking myself for a little over two weeks now. You see, my mind can go in one of two directions under stress—positive or negative. && boyyyy is it EASY to go negative! .
For example, I have probably cussed 8,927 times in the last 24 hours. (Sorry family members who read this but ya girl says bad words 🙈) , my body crashed on me and I slept for over 13 hours the other day and missed 5 phone calls (for real how did I NOT hear that?) , I have been having eczema flare ups from all of this moving madness and then getting super emotional about my flare ups which causes more flare ups... and repeat. 🤦🏼♀️
This is the crazy ride of life though, and I was reminded the other day of some amazing people who have so much more going on than me, who are happily leaning into God to get through it. My stress took a plummet after that because I realized that I have my health, I have my friends and family, and I woke up today with Jesus in my heart. Things will work out. God is there. Stress be gone now 👋🏻 Excuse me while I continue to pack and choose positive over the negative. 💁🏼♀️
Guys guys, jadi tahun 2017 lalu, aku pernah bikin konten Listicle tentang Make-up tapi bukan Review melainkan artikel tentang awal-awal kenal makeup hingga sampe sekarang yg jadi update segala macam evolusinya. Nah, itu artikel udahh lama sik, secara setaun yg lalu yg akhirnya ternyata itu kode gebrakan siapa aku yg sekarang! Dari dulu emang udah tertarik sama meap anaq nya 🤪
Jadi yaa beginilah nasip blon bisa swipe up swipe up 😜😝😝 well, copy shorter link dibawah ini yaa... Aku ingin kalian lihat betapa kerja kerasnya aku berangkat dari nol banget SEMUANYA no money, rasa kecewa, insecurities. Aku selalu ingin menunjukkan bahwa terus bermimpi, dan berani tampil beda sesuai jati diri kamu, walo banyak lalat yg nyumpahin aku supaya aku gak jadi siapa-siapa tapi nyatanya aku tetap bangkit, tetap maju menggapai impian aku itu.. aku ingin dunia tahu kalau dengar kalimat "berani menggapai mimpi" itu ingat wajahku 😁 aku ingin menjadi diriku sendiri, aku ingin bebas seperti burung yang kesana kemari, aku ingin berinfluence, aku ingin jadi bagian dari dunia, dan ingin dunia tahu... bahwa masih ada kata "Hope". 😇
Let the body lead, it wants to #GO here so FINE (indeed!) & then you see #red & there’s the fucker, not my embarrassment, his instead m, pressure to #DO what was twisted into his... #insecurity 🤫 a secret unless you USE #technology & I didn’t until volunteering w #ptsd to understand knowing #experience & DOING teaches #FASTER ❤️ now I like tech. I do NOT like like it.
What’s holding you back to take the next step in your career and do what you really love
I know that feeling and I get you. For several years I had good paying job in an IT department. I knew I was doing an ok job, but I didn’t feel satisfied. A lot of work was just on autopilot. In a way I liked the job, but I wasn’t really doing what I loved
There where all these thoughts and feelings that made me insecure and held me back to take the next step. Would the new job be financially sufficient, do i have the proper skills and what if I didn’t like the new job. I wanted to take the next step but what if
A reorganization gave me the last push I needed to take appropriate action. I made a decision to step out of my comfort zone and start a journey to do what I really love. I started to ask for support of coaches and mentors to get clarity what I really liked and wanted. I asked for feedback. And I started to adjust my mindset and think in solutions instead of thinking about all the obstacles
The decisions and steps I took became a huge blessing. A financial blessing, but more important, now I know and actually do what I love. And that feeling, is a great feeling!!! It gives me so much energy and it brings a smile on my face. I know now I love to support individuals and teams reach their full potential. And you know what? Nothing has to hold you back from doing what you love. You can also do what you really love!
NEW VIDEO!! Taking a break from travel talk and address something that lacks in a lot of people, especially women. I think we can all agree that loving yourself is what will get you far in every aspect of your life. But... how? How can I love myself if I can’t fit into an Abercrombie dress? How can I love myself when I can’t get out of bed in the mornings because I’m so depressed? How can I love myself after failing the LSAT? In this video I hope to address the WHY and the HOW behind loving yourself first. Link in bio!
I’ve spent a lot of my life with the I can’t #attitude. #Insecurity. Doubting myself. When I’ve stepped outside of my comfort zone and decided HELL YES I CAN DO THIS. I DON’T CARE IF I TRIP AND FALL, BECAUSE I CAN GET UP, DUST MYSELF OFF AND KEEP MOVING! That’s when I’ve seen the truth growth and #success. Don’t doubt yourself. Get out there and do it!
Part of trusting the process and building those boundaries is admitting when someone doesn’t make you feel good. We tend to deny ourselves those feelings because we don’t want to admit that those feelings are coming from within us and have nothing to do with the other person. If you find yourself feeling jealous or insecure in a friendship, it’s okay to pull away. Find the source of those feelings and build yourself up from there. And for those “friends” who never support, always have a negative word, and encourage you to put your livelihood at risk : DROP HER. Recognize the difference between “having a good time” and “doing hoodrat shit with my friends”. Your better than that sis. Love yours. ✨